What you are doing is a great start.
All speedos will read low to actual speed, never higher. My speedo reads about 3mph low at 60mph indicated.
From VW:
"To allow for possible differences in overall tire diameter with different tire manufacturers and wheel sizes, a factor is designed into the speedometer function that increases the displayed speed. This factor does not affect odometer readings, which show actual distance traveled."
The last statement isn't actually true as I've found most odometers read less miles than actually covered and there's also got to be a small difference as your tyres wear.
We've had a discussion about sat-nav accuracy previously (which hurt my head

) here:
http://www.hypermiler.co.uk/forum/viewt ... f=14&t=886 but it sounds like yours is pretty accurate.
My car doesn't have instant mpg readout either that's why I bought an UltraGauge (thread here:
http://www.hypermiler.co.uk/forum/viewt ... ultragauge ).
Resetting the trip mpg will help you gauge if what you are doing is helping to a degree just take the numbers with a pinch of salt, they generally read high! Doing a brim to brim tank will give you much more accurate numbers.
You say you are coasting in gear - are you doing any coasting in 'N'? Unless you are going down a steep hill, coasting in 'N' will normally get better fuel economy. Again, some great discussion have taken place on this subject
http://www.hypermiler.co.uk/forum/viewt ... f=17&t=598.
Check your tyre pressures. You can put them up a lot more than you think:
http://www.hypermiler.co.uk/forum/viewt ... f=17&t=498
Finally speed has to be this biggest factor. I have seen many graphs of the fuel economy of different cars at increasing speeds and the main conclusion is speed kills FE! You should be aiming to go as slow as you can get away with

- On a motorway 50 to 55 would be good if you stick with the lorries plus you get the added advantage of drafting which you mentioned - just keep a safe distance.
According to the Department for Transport, driving at 70mph uses up to 9% more fuel than at 60mph and up to 15% more than at 50mph. 80mph can use up to 25% more than at 70mph.
Found this as an example on the net:

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and this one is an old one from Wiki but it's the same principle:

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